LOL, thanks Tim for checking in. I must have got smacked because things are going pretty well right now. I have my goals written down, I've centered and I'm finding my way to give space. A huge leap for me, W asked if there was something on my mind, something I wanted to say, etc...I told her no, not at all. I was in a happy mood, got lots of hugs and kisses from my D's and I'm still smiling! Made some minor 180's in the way I went about the night and I think I will actually enjoy watching a little tv tonight.

W's moods and emotions are for her...not me. I will be supportive when I need to be and validate, but not be dependent.

How's things your way Tim ol' boy?

"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu