Rob I share your goals! Actually I think GH was refering to me about the "someone else" who likes to snoop! I stopped. It has been hard but what I find just fuels my anger and resentemnt and lets me get drawn into her emmotional control! The key that you referred to is being there for your W, but not getting drawn into the emmotional rollercoaster. I have been able to step out of it in my sitch for a few days, and it feels good. Trust me I have been drawn in several times, and it is hard to step back again. Today I have stepped back, and living today for myself. You are strong my friend! It is now time to execute or intentions for ourselves!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
