To be clear, GH, I was only using the bear as an example...and wouldn't advise you to bring it up now. I think this approach is useful, but I don't think you want to go into a convo with the opening statement that she's lying!

Hey, I get paid to "talk" and cross-examine for a living...so imagine how hard it is for me to be that direct and move on. lol

"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu