Quote: I think to a large extent, my problem is that I like to talk on and on and will kill conversations. When I am direct, I get my point across and then move on with the day. Maybe I just need to learn when to end the conversation gracefully.
I will just skip to this. This is me to a T. Well, it USED to be me. Now I am a commando conversationalist. I try to identify my objective, prepare the words, and ONLY the words I need to get the job done, and then speak. When I am done, I am done. I really try to STOP my inherent desire to talk everything to death. It has been a large change in me, and one my W appreciates.
Oh, and as for the bear thing, once again, I point out that she has now told me twice that it is from her childhood. If I bring it up at all, I will first have to accuse her of lying. Not really good right now since I could accuse her of lying about so many other more significant things. Best to stay quiet right now like my C advised. There will be a time and place.
