Ok. Point taken. Be direct huh? If that is the other option, then I choose to remain silent so my words cannot be used against me. Seriously, I don't really want to know. Sure, I have fun with it, and it also bothers me, but what will asking her/me knowing do for me? Make me more jealous? Probably. Make me seem totally unable to do anything but look for evidence he's still around? Probably. You get my point. How 'bout this. If I decide to ever bring it up with her, I will do it in a direct, honest manner, expressing how I feel and not accusing her of anything. Would that work?