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One thing that struck me, and I still don't really know why, is after going over Valentines day and some of the warming up that my W has been doing lately, the C asked me "So, is she seeing the OM less?"
It took me by surprise because most people would ask if she stopped seeing the OM.




Why is it that I always read something like this AFTER I make the mistake of bringing the subject up with my W? As usual, my inability to accept some things as they are is getting in the way. There are days, like this morning, where I feel that anything less than total isolation from the OM is essential....once again, focusing on the negative. I guess rather than getting down on myself to hard, or before any of you do, I should at least point out that I didn't talk the issue to death. But the fact that I brought it up with her does bother me.

Can I just say that "this sucks!"

Now back to our regularly scheduled postings.....


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