GH....OT has once again given you some sound advice. Just an FYI regarding your post. Yes you have come a long way in such a short time, much quicker than some on here...however, keep in mind, a month, that does not equate to the history of the M. Your W will still look for consistent changes in you, the M and you should expect to see consistency in her also. Something I read in one of the many books was that it took months, years for the M to be in the current state and it can take just as long to get it back on track if it does work out. So while I know you are smarter than the average bear, just have patience, stick to your hard work, make sure the changes are for you and don't be disappointed by minor setbacks. Good luck with your C session today!!