Well, you know as well as I do that she will not talk until its time. This is probably one of my biggest complaints as well with my W....I'm ready to talk at the drop of a hat, but she will clam up until the day that she feels ready to open up. I also happen to think that your W and my W are very similar. In the event that my W moves beyond OM, I don't think it will be with any great fanfare and she will likely NOT want to talk about it. Her actions will be the true indicator. In time, she will be ready, but only on her time.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu