Thanks Rob. I see positives too. It's hard to believe any of them after what I have gone through the past month but I know they are there and probably real. It looks like I may not be the only one using the Ireland trip date as a "line" of some sort. All things point to her trying to resolve this by then. We'll see. I have not heard from her today. Dunno what the day will bring. She didn't come to be until around 2:30am so she was barley conscious when I left at 6:30am. If I know my W (uh, well, that's a BIG if these days) she will bury whatever is going on. I don't have much hope that she'll let me in on what happened last night so I will have to continue to observe and try not to react to what I THINK may be happening. This is hard for different reasons that it's been hard in the past.