I think the most important thing for you is to not read into anything yet. It is likely that if she did break things off with OM, then she will be experieincing a period of remorse. It is obviously critical that you be there for her in a supportive manner to help pick up the pieces. Do not personalize her emotions and do not react to them.

GH, I am really so happy for you at this point, it seems as though at the very least there has been some progress in your R, it may not be a total reconciliatioin yet, but I see so much positive right now. Stay the course and keep us updated!

"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu