Thanks OT. I will give her that hug. I also think you are right about the timing of the thing, if it is indeed what she said it is. I am a little confused at why she would not just come out and say, clearly, that she was breaking things off with him. I suppose there are a million reasons why she didn't, but leaving the possibility open to NOT do that is one I can think of. Like I said, I don't KNOW anything so I will wait and see. NOW, there were a bunch of you who questioned my gift selection because it signified something romantic/intimate. I told you that the PJ's were neither of those things. WELL, she gave me a candle. THAT is something in our life that signifies romance and intimacy. I am not going to read into it, but suffice to say I WOULD NOT have gotten her a candle because of the instant meaning she would have attributed to it (I want $ex). Go figure.
