For you, and everyone else, I do have a question. How is it that these people (WAS) seem to think everything is about them, EVEN things WE do. I ask because whenever I tell her I am going out, or doing something, she assumes it is a reaction to something she did or said.

That's so true of LBSs too. It's true of most people. It's called "Personalization": a common, distorted cognitive reasoning process. Ah, I remember when "personalization" simply meant getting a pen with my name on it.

I mean I can't go to the bathroom without her thinking it's revenge for her affair.

It's not? I thought it had quite the symbolic meaning.

Wait....why am I the one to get smacked!?!

Cuz you know you probably deserve it, and we just didn't find out yet what it was you did that you deserve it for.