Personally, I don't think so, unless God's culpable for people having affairs. I think the Bible puts it nicely in Proverbs somewhere... that we're all like fish in the sea and can be snared up in a net, that chance and unforeseen circumstances affect us all (no one's doing anything to you, it's just life). And that, what you sow you reap, so for whatever you put into your sitch (cause), there'll be some sort of result (effect). And that the heart is treacherous and cannot be trusted (emotions are fickle and we cannot permit ourselves to be led by them as the results can hurt us rather than help us).
Good lord man, now you're breaking down scripture. You da MAN! Thank you for the slap my friend. You are speaking the truth and I know it. Hard to practice sometimes, but true.
Screw them.
Um, no thanks. They're hairy and men...not my type. I'm hard up but not THAT far gone yet.
Good Lord. man. She's a Walk-Away!!! She's NOT a "wife" right now!
Interesting concept.
Was that because you're looking toward W to comfort and soothe your upset?
No, I just wanted to grill her some more. I wanted to painfully extract information from her. If anything maybe like the "snoopers" I thought she may tell me something that, yes, might make me feel better. As I said, it was mainly about anger, not sadness. Glad it didn't happen. Another learning experience.
You don't have to anything but focus on yourself without her thumbprint on you.
I think she prefers to use her middle finger to "imprint" me.