Well, it certainly isn't up to us. If it was, we'd be doing much better!
Fortunate for you she didn't answer.
But I know what you mean by all of us establishing that one or two things that would be the proverbial straw breaking the camel's back. I've established several of them and each time I find myself stepping back up to the plate for another hit.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
