GH and Rob, Hey we knew today would be rough but lets vent here and support each other! My W is having a "study group" tonite (code word date with OM) so I am in the same boat. I guess we have to decide what boat we are on the "Titanic" or the "Love Boat". Personally I want Issac to pour me a stiff drink and get through the day (plus I had a crush on Julie when I was a kid)! Hope my analogy is not to weird for you! We can not control our W. They will make the choices they want regardless if we think they are wrong or right! People tend to take the path of least resistance in a time of crisis. Our WAS know it will be a challenge to come back to us, so maybe it easier dealing with the OM because there is less baggage on that side of the fence today. Who knows but I took a good look around me today and realized that the world is beautiful, and today is not just about our W but all the people we care and love in our lifes! Let our actions show that we truly do love our W's today by being strong!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
