Thanks for your concern guys. I know my H doesn't mean to be such an a$#. I just think he's always so worried about what other people think. And he knows that no matter what I will always love him and forgive him.
I think I would be way more secure about everything if he would move back in and agree to start wearing our rings again. Last week we were watching a movie on TV and he reached over to hug me. Out of the blue I started to cry and when he asked why, I said "I'm so glad I still have you." He said "it's because of you."
We still haven't talked about the party and I'm not sure we need to. Last night I told him I was never going to be OK to have him just leave me alone at a party where I don't know anyone. He said what's important is that we are nice to each other. So I think we've communicated all that need be.
