hey hon, sorry you had a rough time at the party)))))))) I am mighty sure my H didnt' tell any of his ex-coworkers (same jerks who also encourage the A) that he was back w/me. It is something about them (Hs) not wanting to admit they messed up, your H might feel he needs to put up a front to those jerks at work.
Sadly, I have come to the conclusion that lots of things that I would NEVER do to my H he'd would have no prob in doing (the A, forgiving if I was the w/the A -he admitted to that) so I had to come to terms w/that.
If you don't trust yourself today or tomorrow, then by all means calm down, but not talkign about it any time soon it's only going to put another mile between you, IMO. Your H might still be fighting the tentacles of the A on his heart, that could be a reason he acted the way he did, and not wanting to seem the one at fault made you feel like you were the one who was wrong.
Don't loose hope hon)))))))))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
