Sorry to make this all about me but I learned something from that post, or really had something affirmed that my W has sorta said to me before.
Quote: Another really big issue between us is that I haven't always felt my H is on my side. I need to feel that I am important and that my opinion counts.
I think this is what Muddle and I are talking about right now on our threads. The fact that because we often just did things our way without really considering our W's way, and in my specific case, becasue I never really stick up for my W in family issues (with her family), really may make our wives feel like you feel, not supported.
So you are saying that it really does help you when he just does the little things you ask, or does something your way when it really doesn't matter how it gets done? Does he do this more now?
Anyway, it sounds like things are going ok. I get the fighting about little things but I think it's all part of the process you go through on the way to wherever we are all going.
