oh honey, hugs))))))))))))))) the above posts hit the mark, he has to make you a priority on his own, I also was second picked when he choose to have a great trip to Vegas, he originally was going w/her (of course I didnt' find that out 'til last week) But guess what? weeks later they broke it off, and OP is out of the pict. Granted, he prob still had to get her out of his mind since he sent flowers to OP on her bday AFTER he moved in w/me (denied it 'course), someone here said that putting the OP out of the pict is very hard even to the most commited spouse who comes back.
Take a time off to yourself, you need to back away from this pict to see the whole situation from afar, do something for yourself and reclaim your freedom and peace of mind))))))))))))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
