My H and I continue to slowly move forward. We had a nice time together Sunday afternoon. It was actually nice that we just had a kinda normal day together and didn't end up ML. I know that is hard for some of you going through a dry period to believe, but as sex has been the cornerstone of our M, it's nice to see we're moving to the next stage.
Things are generally good but my H has not verbally committed to our M. And, it really, really bothers me that he seems to have no plans to move back home. He does talk in "we" often but the other day he made some comment that he planned to give me "x" amount of money each month in the future and he recently got some new artwork for his apartment. When he made the comment about banking I said he should just close that account--hint, hint, come back to our joint account.
But I am very worried about my H. The second anniversary of his dad's death is coming up on Friday. Last year at this time we had been putting things back together from his first A (which happened when his dad died) and when the first anniversary hit things went downhill fast.
I think things are different this time around. Actually, I know they are different. I've taken time off from work, and, if he agrees, I think we're going to go away for the weekend.
Also, a month from now one of his closest friends is getting married and at this point I'm not invited. He said if I went it would be weird for a lot of his friends and then it would be about us instead of his friends who are getting married. I think there's some truth to that, BUT, I think as it is a month away, he can give them enough warning that it will not be weird. The topic is still open for discussion so I'm hopeful he will change his mind.
