So I went and called the ow's work voice mail after hours, and, as it did not have an away message, it suggests that she did not go with my H to the wedding in Ireland. (When they were both in Italy on business and then spent time traveling together she did leave an out of office message.)
I guess I have suspected that my H has been losing interest in her but this leaves me even less sure as to whether I should call or e-mail my H at all while he is gone (for three weeks) especially as the more I push for a D the more unsure he is that he wants to end our M.
So any advice here would be appreciated. I don't want to pursue him but at the same time, three weeks is a long time and I don't want him to forget about me.
