I think I need to change my name from SuperStressed to SuperFRUSTRATED!
My H has left the country for a month and, as I suspected, without signing the D papers. Not that I want a D. I just want an end to this crappy ride and in VA you can only file for a no fault D if you have a property settlement agreement and been apart six months, or you've been separated for a year. We're only just approaching the six month mark.
So now what do I do next? My H is showing some signs that he doesn't want a D, but refuses to take any steps toward working on our M. At the same time the more I push for a D the more he drags his feet.
On a positive note, he is back to telling me he loves me before getting on a plane. (I always demanded it before flights--a weird superstition of mine.) He sent me a text and e-mailed me from the airport to say "I love you!"
It's been almost two years since we've been going through this hell and I guess I'm out of patience.
