GH- Wow, great post. It made so much sense. That is something that hopefloats and I have said all along - that we came here with the goal of saving our M's. When one has that mindset, it is hard to "derail" it, and go in a completely different direction. I know that I contributed to the breakdown of my M, but I just don't know how much more introspection is going to help my sitch...i don't think anything is going to help at this point. I do believe that the theories and techniques involved in DBing can work, so don't misunderstand what i am saying. I just know what my intention was in reading the book and coming here.
