I totally understand what you are saying. But, i don't know what the right thing to do is. I did the begging and pleading and it didn't work. I tried not pursuing...that didn't work either. Although, I don't think that i really did all of the DBing techniques.
I was thinking this morning that maybe I should have expressed myself more. I remember, after I moved back home and my H moved out, that we had a conversation and he asked me why i never called him to tell him that i missed him or invite him to the house. I wonder, sometimes, if that is what i should have been doing. But, i guess its too late now...the papers are already done.
There is no exact science. I think that you have to do what you believe, in your heart, is the right thing to do. You know your H...what do you think he would be more receptive to? I think that we just have to keep trying different things until we find the right combination.
Regardless, SS, you have been working to save your M. That is commendable.
