Thanks for checking in on me. I'm not filing for D. I'm just so tired of being unhappy and I feel I need to do something to avoid being in this no man's land.
All this DBing didn't work. I guess I was looking around here and not seeing to much positive going on. Yes it's great to GAL and to detach, drop the rope, etc. But, if it isn't working then it's time to try another tactic. As much as it is non-DBing, I got my H back the last time by calling him and seeing him. I wish I had never moved out for that month and given him space. People break up because they don't spend enough time together. What we really need is to spend more time together so he can see the positive side of me. So I'm going to call him every day and stop by his office, and generally do whatever it takes to see him.
I guess that's why I had to leave these boards. There is so much talk about letting them come to you and do the chasing. But somebody has to do the chasing and if my H isn't then I am going to have to do that work. And I guess I feel like these boards have become more about getting to a point in your life where you can move on without your spouse. I don't want to get to that point. I want to get my H back.
