You know, these WAS's are warped. In fact my H. probably doesn't even consider anyone he dates right now to be yet another "affair" because he feels it's ok to see other women while we are separated (not legally though). He thinks he's single right now. Unreal.
If you file, are you ok with going the route of adultery? The only reason I ask is because of what NY S posted about all these D. laws and such. I worry that it would be costly for you to file that kind of charge against your H. and I wonder if maybe you could mediate or something less expensive? I just don't want to see you drain yourself financially. We are in different states so maybe it is easier for you than it would be for me. I don't know. If you see a lawyer I'd be interested in hearing what he/she had to say, if you feel up to sharing it.
My heart goes out to you, super. I don't know what these men are thinking. Hugs, Hope
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
