So my H called this morning and it turns out he was actually able to stop his direct deposit into our joint account immediately. I must say that I'm amazed by just how low he has stooped. He said he will give me the check to put in our account but WTF? I should be fuming but really it makes me think of how pathetic he's become.
He's asked me to let him know right away when his new checks and bank card for his new account arrive in the mail. I'm still debating about how fast to contact him when they arrive. Let's see if I have this right. I call him he never returns my calls. He calls me and expects an immediate answer/response. I don't think so.
I'm kinda glad that V-day is Tuesday because that's the day I do a newsletter so I'm just too busy to think about him. And, then when I get done with the newsletter I like to give myself a pat on the back for finally taking charge of a solo project. In the past I always relied on someone else to double check my work.
Nothing else new to report here. I have a feeling it's going to be a very dark couple weeks. But I'm actually happy about that. I'm trying to focus on the positive and I don't need him bringing my mood down.
