well, there's that syndrom called "Romance" that thrives on obstacles, and the more there are the more intense it becomes. Don't ask me though, I'm certainly no expert as to how to get H from an OW, but the clever books say that the only medicine here is a good dose of reality free of obstacles. It's not the result that our H seem to be after, it's the process: struggling, proving themselves, proving others wrong, trying out some opportunities, and so on. Let them have the end result and see what happens.
At least it's my thinking. I can absolutely relate to you sith Imdi, since my H has been telling me for 11 years that he doesn't need anyone but me, will never need anyone and will not even look at anyone. I guess now there's certainly the "anyone" that he wants to be with, and I'm feeling that I have been insensitive, bitchy and unappreciative. COuld that be true? Or, is a good H the one not only TALKS but actually STAYS with you no matter what, no matter what syrens and obstacles there are to endure?
What do you think.
Also, if you guys have plans to meet, I would gladly impose, since I live nearby too ')
To get through the darkest period of the night, act as if it is already morning.
The Talmud
