That seems to be a running theme with these MLC’ers…the “I’ll do what I want, don’t tell me what to do” attitude. My H. has told me before that he doesn’t want anyone (either me or o.w.) to tell him what to do. He wants to feel in control, make his own decisions. I think this is where the idea of agreeing with them comes into play. Of course, then there’s a limit to what you can agree with while still maintaining your self respect.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
