You know Imdi99, I think your H will realise..... one day..... I just dont know when that day will be.... If your H is anything like mine, the more people tell him to stop being stupid, pull himself together, get a grip on what he is doing etc etc then the more he will be on a mission to prove to himself and everybody that he can cope in his 'new' life situ and that he is happy... Does your H seem to have a ' i do what i like' attitude.. My H does at the moment, and it drives me mad... If anything at all is suggested to him, its always - I do what i like, i am a free person'...
I do think the best option for us, is to keep GALing as much as possible...
This keeps us less obssessed on them, plus is the best way to get our H's to start taking a step back and take a look at us for a change, rather than focusing on themselves as they have been doing...
