Alot can happen in next few weeks.... Dont throw the towel in just yet... As far as understanding our H's - I am not sure we ever will... I do think they hit a MLC and the only way for them to carry on is act the complete opposite to how they have been doing for past 30 years... I know my H inside is a good, kind hearted man, yet over these past 2 years and even still now all I see from him is selfishness and arrogancy and puting himself first.. I think he struggles to deal with how he feels himself, so they only light he can see is doing what pleases him. Its like they hit a MLC and all of a sudden they are questioning them selves, and the natural process for them is the think ' well it must be something wrong in my life for me to feel like this, so i must change everything I do and start doing the complete opposite'..
I do beleive that all we are doing is basically giving them the space to go through this MLC and hopefully come out of it at the end of it all...
Although from all my reading I also sincerely beleive that we can help slow down or speed up the process dependent on how are handle the situation.
I went to see a physic last year, and she told me that m H still loves me ( true, he has told me this). She also said that there is a chance we could get back together, but it would not been down to my H, it would be down to me and it would be my decision...
And its true........I am one of the unfortunate many whose partners have hit a crisis within their lives... My H will come out of it, of that I am sure, but whether we get back together again will be down to me, and whether i am prepared to wait and also how I choose to deal with the situ and live my life in the meantime...
Sorry, am waffling now a bit , but hope you get my drift.
