I have read a book which advices you to agree with your H.. If you want me to e-mail it to you then let me know your e-mail address.. Basically if your H says I want a divorce, stop disagreeing with him, stop trying to get him to hold off or change his mind.. Agree with him, ' say yes, ok I agree with you it is for the best, i agree with your reasons to Divorce. I dont think we can work it out'....
And then dont say anything else... Just be very pleasant and happy around him. Dont talk about your R, and whatever comments your H makes just agree with him...
You should try it........I really do think it may make your H sit back a bit and think ' whats going on here...she wants to D me?'''