Thanks brava- I did check out that website today...thank you for the suggestion. It says a lot of things that make sense. I have been trying to let go, but it is so hard. I am hoping that one day this will hurt less. Right now, i can't imagine that day ever coming.
I keep hoping that my H is confused. It just doesn't make much sense to me. I thought that maybe ow was pressuring him to file, so he did so she would get off his back. I can't imagine that he actually thinks that i will sign the papers as they are written. Perhaps he wants me to contest it, so he can make me the bad guy in the eyes of the ow. I don't know...the whole thing is just so exhausting. And i know that this is all speculation and that what he does and says shouldn't matter. I wish it didn't. There has to be a reason for this. I am hoping that it becomes clear to me soon. And i hope that this pain will subside. Right now, i don't think it could get any worse.
