Lmdi-

just checked your thread. I am so extremely sorry that you have to go through this. Life just does not seem fair at times.

Please know that I am sending lots of positive energy your way!

Don't let your H's confusion and messed up life determine your self worth. As many others have commented already: HE is the one with the problem.
I can only imagine what he wrote in those papers. I think though it is just an example of how all over the place your H is. He is hurt and confused and just messed up right now.

He might never get his act together. Either way you need to take care of yourself and part of that is not letting his craziness put you in the role of a victim. Dont give him that power ! (He probably would not want it anyway!)

I know, I know... easy to say when it is not your life!
I ahve mentioned this book/website before. Not sure if you have checked it out. It might give you some strenght during this difficult time: www.divorceasfriends.com

((((((LMDI))))))

brava



Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05