he was my soulmate and my best friend and i didn't think it was possible for anybody to love me as much as he did. Where did that all go? What is so wrong with me that he doesn't love me enough to want to work this out and stay with me?
Good Lord, am I listening to myself now?? I know, similarities are no consolation (although if you think about it, it same things happen to other people, maybe the "wrongness" is not so much in you, or them either. Maybe the other spouse has some wrongness in them?) But listen to NYSurvivor.
It's hard to believe that you will survive, I know; but you will. Remember everything you've survived so far. This will make you stronger and a better person, so if anything, you should have more luck in the future than you could have hoped for before it all started.
To get through the darkest period of the night, act as if it is already morning.
The Talmud
