Thanks Lisa- I am just having a really hard time with this today b/c it is just new and my emotions are so raw. I am not looking forward to getting those papers and reading them. And then having to get an attorney to respond to them. Just so complicated. And i just don't feel emotionally ready to deal with it all. I wish that my H had let me know that he had seen an attorney, so i could be a bit better prepared. Guess its the coward in him.
I will try to focus on myself and the positives that could come out of this. I am not looking forward to the next few weeks and the emotions that i will be going through. But, things happen for a reason. And hopefully, one day, i will be able to look back and recognize the reason for it. One day, i hope i am no longer so sad.