I wanted to say this earlier but don't discount the role the lawyer may be playing in this. All the things he said about you may be things that lawyer thought important to build his case around. Maybe he was reluctant to put these things in but was convinced to do so. Who knows, but whatever the case, here you are. I know if it were me filing for D, it would get VERY ugly because I would have to put things in the papers that I would never in a million years WANT to say about my W to the outside world, but they are things that would make my case stronger, and hers weaker, and in the courtroom, that's all that matters. Just another take on things...
