If its any consolation my and my H have been seperated for 2 years on 1st march, and its only these past few months we have started getting anywhere and he has started to show signs of wanting to get anywhere... AND that is really all becuase I GAL'd - BIG TIME!!!
I know how bad you feel at the moment but trust me only you can bring yourself out of it... Look at your choices... 1) keep DBting and be miserable OR 2) keep BDting and enjoy urself??
which is more appealing....
You can keep D Bing BUT just start enjoying yourself again.. Go our with your friends... start a new hobby... Anything!!
For me i started going out with friends at a weekend... We had a laugh, had a few beers and yes, I got some attention of other men, even though I was not interested, it sure does give you a boost and stops you obessessing over H's....
Give it a try - please?? its time to make yourself happy again , becuase your H isnt going to do it for you...