OMG, lmdi, I am so sorry that you are dealing with this. What a terrible way to find out that he filed. Did you have the conversation before or after you found out about the D? I am also wondering how long ago he actually filed - ie: how long btw him filing and your receiving the papers? Could it be that after he actually went through with it was when he began saying all of the super sweet things to you? Perhaps he filed in a similar fashion to how our WAS seem to do everything else - Impulsively, and without much thought of the consequences. Maybe after he did it he immediately began to feel the regret. Just trying to put an idea out there that could possible link the sweetness and the D, an maybe lessen the confusion. But I realize it is speculation, and that never gets us anywhere good right? I just feel so bad - I was so excited to read the post before this and so this one was shocking- I can only imagine how you are feeling. You are in my thoughts, and just remember, nothing is written in stone. There is always hope. Take care.
