Hey brava-
Thanks for stopping by. I have been thinking so much about what the medium said to me. As you can imagine, it is still bothering me. I took out my DSM today and looked up narcissistic personality disorder, actually all of the personality disorders, and my H did not fit the criteria. Sure, there were some things that sounded similar, but not nearly enough to qualify for that diagnosis. I have decided that my H is not a sociopath. It is a huge jump from being manipulative (isn't everybody) to being a sociopath. I don't doubt that my H has been less than honest over the past several months, but i don't think that means he is wacky or a nut.

Lots of great dialogue going on.
Did you mean between me and my H? or with others on the boards?

Actually, the medium i saw last night was the same one i saw who said all that bad stuff. She didn't choose me out of the audience, but there was another girl there that she chose and she told her some of the same exact things that she told me...thought that was interesting.

Spent the day today with my kitties...will have a lot of time with them next week, as H will be away on business.

Our first open house will be on the 26th...not looking forward to it. I am anticipating that we will get an offer on our house shortly after that, which means our house could be gone as soon as April. Interesting that it could coincide with the 18 month mark of our separation...perhaps my H is trying to tie up all of the loose ends at the same time. Not looking forward to it. I just keep telling myself that a lot could happen in 8 days and that just b/c the house goes on the market, doesn't mean we can't take it off if we decide to. Just trying to take it one day at a time.

Did speak with H today...i called him this morning to confirm my visit, since we didn't speak yesterday. He called me several hours later...i imagine it was to find out if i was still at our house, which i was, but was actually getting ready to leave. Guess i won't see him before he leaves on Monday. I am hoping that maybe this trip will give him some time to think. He will be in a Florida, which was a favorite vacation spot of ours (took our first vacation there, as well as went there on part of our honeymoon)...maybe it will stir up good memories.

Anyway, just getting ready to go to bed. Trying to figure out what to do tomorrow...shopping? But, i do need to save money...we'll see.