Imdi, Interesting about the medium. I have never been to someone like that. I have to tell you from what you wrote I think she was totally picking up your aunt in the “mothering” role, because you do live with your aunt, and she does have negative feelings re: your husband. I’d look at it not so much as the title (aunt vs. mother) but the role she plays in your life right now. I can’t say if she was right about what she said about your H. as only you really know him. It doesn’t surprise me that she spoke negatively about him, but I don’t know about the narcissistic personality description; seems a psychologist would be in order! If you believe in this kind of thing, then it should bring a little hope your way that she sees you remarried and with a child! I wish I could help you with advice in regards to all your H’s calls. My H. can act the same way at times and I don’t understand it, either. They want what they want when they want it…that’s probably what it is. Imdi, I do hope that your situation improves for you; I know you have been suffering through a lot of pain for a long time. I totally understand how you feel, and no one can change your heart. I pray your H. wakes up and realizes soon what a wonderful wife he has waiting for him, and he decides to start doing something to save his marriage. Thinking of you.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
