Thanks GH-
I don't think that my mood hinged on what my H was doing or if he called...but, i could be wrong. It was just another day. It actually went better than i thought it would...no tears! I was a little sad...it would have been nice to get a card or something, but i kept my expectations very low.

I read on here about all of the H's who went out and got things for their WAW's, and i can't help but wonder what the f... is wrong with my H?!? It made me feel, for just a minute, that i wasn't worth fighting for. But, it was a fleeting thought. Still, would have been nice to get a piece of candy or something.

Here's my dilemma...i need to go to my house tonight to look for my grad school diploma - my job needs it (why now, i don't know, since i've been there for 2 years). Anyway, i am hesitant to call my H...i don't want to be pursuing. But, i do need it. I guess i could wait until my weekend visit, but HR did ask me to look for it tonight (and they are not aware that i do not live at home). Do you think it is okay to call?