I'm with you on the lying. Who do our WASs think they are? Jack Nicholson in A Few Good Men? When I first told my H I knew about OW#1 he said he thought we had a deal to not tell each other about it as it would just hurt the other person and be unloading guilt. I told him that did not apply to serious love affairs when you're considering leaving your W. Then he said he was trying to protect me by not telling me.
Hockey, I think she was referring to the book "Surviving Infidelity."
