Thank you Mike- I have been willing to forgive my H...if only he was willing to work on our M. The thing is, he won't even admit to the A, which is probably the most frustrating part. For me, the lying is much worse than the actual A.
Could it be that your W is reacting to the anniversary of when she found out about the A? I will try to read more about your sitch. You should read "Surviving Infidelity." It helps the betrayed spouse, as well as the one who did the cheating. Reading it might help you understand what your W might be feeling.
Give it some time. She may just need to sort through some things on her own...allow her to do that.
I hope that things do work out for you. Thank you so much for keeping me in your thoughts...that is very sweet. Take care of yourself.
