I can not beleive how so different people can be, My situation is so similar to yours it is scary. Difference, I the H had an affair, it was purely a physical affair, I would see OW every couple of weeks for a couple hours and then leave, W found out last Feb, and we began to work it out then this past weekend, after I think maybe the past 8 months of our 20 year marriage she packs up takes halve the house while Im away and leaves, I wish my wife was half as open minded as you, I have tried and tried to convince her otherwise, but my valentine call was "I say a lawyer yesterday and you will get the seperation papers in a couple of days, ok, CYA hangs up. And here I am a bundle of nerves trying to figure ways to keep her, I even sent her an email with alink to this site and she replied, "Not interested, nothing yuo say can or will change my mind.
I truly hope that you get what yuo so deserve, I applaud your willingness to forgive and look for way to make things better, You will be in my thoughts and best of luck Mike
Going thru a very bad time. Suppose I deserve it as Ihad gone and cheated on wive. Was it worth it, NO WAY! Want so badly to try and make things right but to no avail.
