I was just going to comment on how your life becomes intertwined with your H but I see that thought is so 15 minutes ago.
Anyway, I was thinking last night that what I really miss besides my H as my friend is human touch. Not touch in a sexual way, but things like sleeping next to someone, hugs, hand-holding. I've never been a touchy-feely person (usually I hate hugs and need wide personal space) but now that I have none I'm craving it. My H was touchy-feely to the point that it made me claustrophobic.
I'm not sure what my point is, but it seems like if we find ways to have needs that our H had been meeting met elsewhere, it will be easier for us to drop the rope. Sure our WASs were able to meet most of our needs in one nice package. Instead consider that we're shopping at many different specialty stores for those same things (or things that are even nicer) it's just a little more work.
Sorry my brain is a little frazzled today. I hope this all made sense.
