Hey hope-
Thanks for the offer of wine...it would have been nice.

I was thinking of almost the same thing...how do we be happy when all we want is for our H's to be with us. I know that they are not our lives...but, when i got married, our lives did intertwine...does that make sense? How do you go from planning your life to be one way - with your H - to planning it to be a completely unexpected way? I am not prepared for this, b/c i never thought i would have to be. The whole thing just really sucks!

I hope you enjoyed your snow...my school was closed yesterday, so it was a nice 3 day weekend. Just trying to get through this evil holiday today...