Thankd flutter- Your post did make a lot of sense. And you are right...I don't want to necessarily win my H back...b/c there are certainly aspects of him and our M that i don't want back. Maybe i haven't really been DBing, even though i think that i have. Its just so hard to know what is right. Sometimes, i keep things in b/c letting them out would be bad DBing...but, there are times when i just want to scream out what i want to say. And sometimes i get tired of just doing what seems like the right thing to do.
I don't know. The whole detaching thing is scary to me. B/c i am not sure if i will do it right. But, what do i have to lose, really? Not much.
Anyway, i will check in with you. Thanks for posting.
