SS, you are very right, I do have a lot to learn and I hope it's not too late to learn. I am going to address this on my thread so if you have time...
Imdi,
I feel terrible. I suppose I was not trying to be careful with my last post but then again, I was not trying to make you feel worse. What I am trying to do is give you the idea of what is possible from an ignorant man's perspective.
I had typed more but I am feeling a little unsure (ok, a lot) of myself right now so I had better leave it at that.