Quote: Have you been able to get a hold of your STBX?
Yes, as a matter of fact, I did reach him last night. I said, "Where have you been? I've been calling and you missed our C appt yesterday." He said he never got any messages (GEEZE)!!!!! Well, either he or I or both of us is crazy because I know I didn't dream that I left messages.
Our nice little convo warped into a screaming fest. God, I hate when that happens. It was mostly my fault.
So today, I called him and apologized. I told him that our C and our neighbors and a few other people, as well as myself, thought he was dead. And when he answered the phone last night, I was shocked that he wasn't....
Anyway, he patronized me a bit and while I don't think it cleared the air any, I did get to take care of the business that I needed to with him.
I asked him why he hadn't been in touch with D15 for more than a week and he just said that he MEANT to call her. Oh well! (I bet he MEANT to be a good H too!)....
